tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post5738238196325035137..comments2023-04-29T04:09:00.863-07:00Comments on *Musing Over all kinda Matters*: Is This the Love of My Life?Gospel Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10780550624263653135noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-26114101854471360832010-11-01T03:09:18.765-07:002010-11-01T03:09:18.765-07:00Thanks for your sharing Sulthana. It's good to...Thanks for your sharing Sulthana. It's good to get views from all angles so that we can all learn something from each other.<br /><br />You're right people should not hide under the covers and hope that a guy will come searching high and low for them.<br />I think there's a good balance that one needs to strike here.<br />So yes go out, socialise...get yourself in a place where you'll be noticed (in a good way of course) but I think ultimately leave the guy to initiate things as far as starting a solid relatioship is concerned. Because like Blessing said, most guys lose interest very quickly once you jump the gun and start running ahead of them.Gospel Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10780550624263653135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-6182991463497560372010-10-30T16:25:04.057-07:002010-10-30T16:25:04.057-07:00There is a danger that if you are so far removed f...There is a danger that if you are so far removed from it (by ignoring this situation completely and hoping the right person approaches you when the time is right) you will waiting a long time.<br /><br />I think yes girls shouldn't be so in your face, but at the same time they shouldn't hide themselves either, because let's face it, what are the chances of Prince Charming knocking on your door asking if you're available? He needs to see you out and about to notice you in order to make a move <br /><br />Not sure if I've gone on a tangent lol. <br /><br />Like the post Penelope. It's a question that will get different viewpoints because everyone has a different idea and different comfort threshold. :)Sulthanahttp://hijackmyheart.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-57176359483218022282010-10-29T09:12:45.577-07:002010-10-29T09:12:45.577-07:00Thanks for sharing your comments.
@Maid of Heart, ...Thanks for sharing your comments.<br />@Maid of Heart, I like the way you put it that ladies should busy themselves in the things of the Lord till Mr Right find them. Amen.<br />@Chido, wise words indeed. I like the example comparing Jesus and the church to the man/woman relationship.<br /><br />I hope your views will help anyone who may be unsure about what to do in such a situation.<br /><br />Bless u all. xGospel Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10780550624263653135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-32615359620036044382010-10-29T03:27:21.768-07:002010-10-29T03:27:21.768-07:00A wise person once told me that we should leave th...A wise person once told me that we should leave the guys to do the hunting ...why ? because in the bible it says Jesus loved us first before we even knew him ,he gave his life for us , and you know know marriage is a symbol of our relationship with christ ,Jesus being the groom and the church being the bride .The church never went to look for Jesus He found us , he loved us first .(Eph)Therefore i believe women should not make the first move simply because its the man's job to do so . Most men say they find it a bit scary when women approach them first . So I would do it the bible's way.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03708462527570914243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-84911334496554002482010-10-29T02:10:18.882-07:002010-10-29T02:10:18.882-07:00I like the question you raised here.
I agree with...I like the question you raised here.<br /><br />I agree with blessing. Men are wired to be the hunter not the hunted. The ideal really is for a girl/woman to keep herself busy knowing and serving the Lord and she won't have time for anything else until the right time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-950821684665557442010-10-29T01:15:00.891-07:002010-10-29T01:15:00.891-07:00I agree with you...men definitely enjoy the whole ...I agree with you...men definitely enjoy the whole hunting game and it's nice as well for the lady to know that a guy likes you enough to come after you...pursue you and woo you. <br /><br />I wrote this coz I'm curious to know what people think and why because I've heard so many differing views lately.Gospel Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10780550624263653135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5525954047438339822.post-63983762801930268782010-10-28T20:04:08.796-07:002010-10-28T20:04:08.796-07:00I think that a sister should wait for a brother to...I think that a sister should wait for a brother to approach them. Guys like to chase females and if you approach them first, they kind feel like they lost their "power" and they'll loose interest b4 u know it...<br />Take a look at my recent postBlessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00063729360732047180noreply@blogger.com